This is how I had my hair for my wedding. I went to a salon. Mine was higher up on my head though it looked better higher up. Then I had my tiara in front and tiara under it. Looked fab.
i showed this to the majority of the men that i knew and none of them liked it. They all preferred the long, flowing hair. It's easy to forget that we want the men to still think that we are sexy without having a 'do that looks like you have curlers in